It’s all in our mind 

What’s good? .. what’s bad?
What makes a woman good ? What makes a woman bad?
We live in this world as second handed people where almost all our judgements are clouded based on what we have been taught when we are raised. There is no originality in us. Our thoughts and judgements have always been influenced by external factors and our past experiences. Our mind is always conditioned and we aren’t even trying to break our conditioned mind. 
Yet, we judge others and term them good and bad. Even before we understand people we judge them. If a man drinks alcohol, he’s bad. If a woman smokes she’s bad. If she tries to break out her cages she’s bad. If a man has multiple affairs he’s a player, if a woman does that she’s a slut and above all we judge people based on their sexual orientation and the food they eat, some of us even try to brand them as sinners and punish them for it.
Why does it really matter what people do in their personal life? Who are we to judge them or brand them. Understand that no one is born to impress the other or live by the rules of others
Next time before you judge someone on what they do with their life there’s something called minding your own business .. try that .